I think it helps those who lack focus and an internal compass to feel better about themselves to attempt to control others. And often? Those folks are not at all aware that they are foundering and not doing very well. *THEY* think they’re awesome, and SO awesome, in fact, that you should stop what you’re doing and listen to what they have to say. The folks I notice to are *ACTUALLY* doing pretty well are fairly busy leading passionate, authentic lives and don’t have much time for interfering in the flow of other folks :-)
