January 2012
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Ask me questions about kink & perversion! http://www.formspring.me/Mollena
June 2011
8 posts
listening to "Stevie Wonder - Master Blaster... →
Yes.
listening to "Ice Cube →
The bass on my new headphones is RINGIN’ with this…
listening to "Sly →
listening to "Sly →
FUCK YEAH!!
listening to "New York State of Mind - Billy Joel" →
Hell to the motherfucking yeah.
listening to "Jhon Lennon - Imagine" →
I remember my Mom waking me up to tell me John Lennon was dead. I think it was the first time I cried and felt a real loss because of someone’s death.
listening to "Lucas - Lucas with the Lid Off" →
Thanks Sirius XM on AirTrain for this bombass flashback! :-D
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What's your favorite thing to do after sex?
Apparently, win an International Leather Title, because the last time I had sex, that was the last thing that happened afterward.
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May 2011
4 posts
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What's one of your best sexual memories?
http://www.mollena.com/2008/10/fucked-under-500
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Do you believe a spiritual practice, like...
I believe that all spiritual practices have, at some point in their development, looked to the mortification of the flesh, to service, to slavery ad submission as vital aspects of their pillars. Whether the mortification of the flesh is actual flogging, or the deprivations of fasting, or pilgrimages, this is a common theme. And universal. Whether the submission or slavery is to god, or to a...
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If you were to do drag, what would your drag name...
Ooo I just got a Drag name given to me by actual Drag Queens: I would be Queen Laqueefa.
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What is a Dominant? (A brief definition please....
A person who derives emotional / physical / psychological &/or sexual satisfaction from emotionally / physiologically / physically &/or sexually dominating another person.
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March 2011
32 posts
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Why do people who can't find their way out of a...
I think it helps those who lack focus and an internal compass to feel better about themselves to attempt to control others. And often? Those folks are not at all aware that they are foundering and not doing very well. *THEY* think they’re awesome, and SO awesome, in fact, that you should stop what you’re doing and listen to what they have to say. The folks I notice to are *ACTUALLY*...
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You had to pick 3 people to have an all night good...
I’ll cheat and go with the people with whom I have actually *HAD* all nighter chats in the past year or so. SO those peeps would be my friends Justin, @SherynB, and @HeidiHoover.
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If you had to pick two people to spend the rest of...
It would be The Dominant Guy and Gilberto Gil. I would need a soundtrack and some art and beauty, so Gilberto Gil is an awesome pick there. He is also a fascinating political figure,so he’d bring a lot to the whole desert island thing. TDG has a far-ranging skill set that would facilitate and ease life in such ridonculous hypothetical conditions. Plus he’s an awesome storyteller, so...
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What's the worst pickup line that you have had...
I received an e-mail on collarme.com that said the following, in big ass green letters.
‘DAMN YOU A BIG FINE MOMA YOU OPEN TO K9”
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What is the one thing that you hope young Leather...
Respect & Rebellion. Our Elders rebelled against the main stream, against pressures, against oppression, in order to make a space to be themselves., Follow this. Our Elders also had respect for themselves, for their peers, for tradition. Follow this.
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Admitting my submissive side is one of the hardest...
Yeah. This was more than I wanted to to in a typing kind of way. I recorded an AudioBoo for you, and put it on my site. http://www.mollena.com/2011/03/accepting-your-submissive-self/
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Have you ever been suspended while upside down?
Several times, yes. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would :-)
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What is your all-time favorite piece of visual...
Geeze I dunno…probably Munch’s “Madonna” (aka “Loving Woman”)
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if you could have an item of clothing out of any...
Trinity’s ensemble from “The Matrix” … the one with the long coat and all. Hot.
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if you could bring one character to life from any...
Ganesha. Because the sex would be SLAMMING.
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Best place you've eaten in NYC?
Peter Luger (Crosses herself reverently)
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What, in your estimation, makes for a really great...
Intensity, duration and stamina. Plenty of time and no worries about someone else listening in. And if this orgasm is with someone else involved? Lots of eye-contact, body contact and the coolness to not freak out when I start speaking in tongues.
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long or short? (another question to see what...
Short. I am impatient.
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What is your current opinion on how well polyamory...
My current opinion is that I am deliberately withholding coalescing an opinion. Some parts are extremely difficult for me, some parts are far easier than I’d anticipated. So, we are remaining open.
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What age were you when you got your first proper...
13 and it was a something or other B.
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I just broke up with my ex. We are still living...
Always make your own choices. And make them from a place of empowerment, not desperation, neither because nor in spite of someone else.
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Is subjecting someone to a "Dutch Oven" considered...
If anyone involved become aroused, then yes.
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what do you do for a living? what do you do for a...
For a living? I’m on unemployment. For a life? Enjoy the brief freedom to figure that out.
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where would you rather be right now and what would...
At TheDominantGuy’s feet, breathing quietly.
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eyes - windows to the soul?
Highways to hell.
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state 2 truths and a lie about yourself for others...
I have never had a sexual encounter with 2 men simultaneously. I ate goat in the foothills of the Atlas Mountains with North African Tribesdudes. My legs are slightly deformed.
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what were your best and worst moments last week?
Best: having people share with me how my writing and speaking changed and toughed them. Worst: Chewing myself a new one over some tough emotional processing.
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If you could go back to school anywhere and time...
Yale School of Drama. For acting.
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If you could be anybody else (of the opposite sex)...
William Shatner. he has reinvented himself so many times, makes a living doing what he loves, and maintains humor. Pus he was Captain James T Kirk, for fucksake.
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simple or complicated?
Simple. I bring enough complexity. I really do not want any more.
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medieval or victorian times, and why?
Victorian. Please. The Midieves were too fucking grimy.
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what do you think is the strongest form of...
Creative passion.
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do you know some of the people you tweet with...
No. People who get close enough to me in meatspace are far and few between, and more important than how much I know them, THEY know ME…and still stick around.
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Angelina Jolie or Gina Gershone?
Gina. She could beat my butt Any. Day. All. Day.
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plan for your sweetie for Valentine's Day? or, if...
I hung out with some dear & wonderful friends on that day. You can read here http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=501517249194&id=693826018 why I felt perfectly at home with them :-)
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name every country/state you have lived in. which...
New York, NY. Los Angeles, CA. Pittsburg and San Francisco, CA. My favourite is still NYC. Because it doesn’t cramp my middle-of-the-night style like every other city does.
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Would you rather swim in a pool of earth worms or...
Can I deep fry the centipede? And have it with ranch dip? Because everything’s pretty good deep fried and served with a nice zesty ranch.
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February 2011
5 posts
listening to "EMixRadio - Kate Earl - Nobody" →
Yep…that’s about right.
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Are you a Trek fan other than the new movie?
I am a strict fan of ST:TOS. Bugger all the rest.!
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